Luana shares a few tips and tricks to make it through the first year of university whilst surviving a pandemic. From a Covid graduate to a Covid fresher.
It’s 2020, your first year is clearly
not everything you thought it would be. Freshers’ Fair and hungover
lectures have turned into social isolation and virtual classes. Meeting new
people has become more difficult and going out almost not worth it. You have been
spending way too much time with yourself and have little idea on what to do with all
this free time. Hence, the question you have all been wondering: How are we going to survive this academic
year? Here are a few tips and tricks from a Covid graduate to a Covid fresher
to make it the best Freshers’ Year possible whilst living through a pandemic.
1. Making friends
Making friends at university is always a
primary concern for freshers. Understandably so, considering it can shape your entire
university experience. As the world shifts online and human connection is limited by social distancing,
Covid has made making
friends much harder. Or has it? We live in a digital age. Although we are divided by
social distancing, we are bound by technology. Nowadays we buy nearly all of our clothes, jewellery,
groceries and amenities online. We meet our significant others online; we play
games and share our lives online. So why not make friends online? I know what
you're thinking: Lame. You already have hundreds of Facebook friends, thousands
of Instagram followers, years of Snapchat streaks. You already have online
friends. But no, I am talking deeper than virtual connections. True human
connections. Apps such as Serendip, seek to connect you to friends nearby who
share similar values and personalities. Kind of like the friend that tells you, “Omg, you’ve got to
meet x, you guys are the same!” Such platforms assemble a variety of
like-minded people nearby into a common space. Perhaps what societies would
have done in more ordinary times. When you can’t go to socials, why not bring the socials to
you? Only this time, from
the comfort of your bed.
2. Self-isolation
Everybody’s two most hated words. However,
for those of you who are coming from abroad or living in accommodation, it is almost inevitable. I
imagine most of us have had to go through it by now and it is only that
experience that can teach you the value of time and the true length of a week.
However, there are ways to make the most out of your time in self-isolation.
First, guiltless binge-watching of your favourite
series. Don’t have one? Perfect, it’s time for you to discover one, or two, or
ten. Now that you have nothing better to do, you don’t have to feel bad about
staying in bed and watching Netflix all day. Second, discover new interests. As
cheesy as it sounds, this has been the highlight of my isolation . Experiment with
cooking or baking, try making bead necklaces, finish gigantic colourings, try
yoga, participate in online sports classes, paint, draw, read, anything than can get
you exploring and out of your habit loop. In my experience, I discovered my
interest in mediation. Never in a thousand years would I have ever considered
dedicating a fraction of my time to meditating yet here I was, reserving almost half an hour
a day to it. A recommendation for those of you who might be interested in
trying it out, Headspace. The app takes a Gen-Z approach to meditation and allows the
experience to be accessible to all.
Finally, reconnect with friends abroad.
Open Facetime, Skype, Zoom or whatever platform you like to use and check in on a
friend. It’s important to keep in touch with the people you love. Although you
won’t necessarily want to catch up with your local friends while you are stuck
in your room because FOMO, there are people further away that might be glad to
hear from you. Take the time to ask about them.
3. Celebrations.
Ah yes, celebration! An almost obsolete term. For those of you wondering how one celebrates their first high scoring essay, end of term, a cancelled lecture or postponed exam - these are all relevant questions! I struggled with this during lockdown. I discovered that some of the alternatives I really enjoyed were a round of Fibbage with my new friends or online zoom celebrations. Although some of you might not think highly of zoom celebrations, these can be pretty fun. My university organised a short online graduation ceremony and to my great surprise, it was actually quite amusing. I guess the biggest secret to surviving university through a pandemic is to be adaptable. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade!
I am a 2020 graduate. Like many others, the
end of my university experience was a difficult challenge and unlike anything I
could have ever imagined. Freshers today are facing a similar experience and I
hope I can make it easier in some way for them.
Making friends always was my main problem. Being an introvert is not that easy thing :)
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